Click here to listen to the cougar discussion on Woman's Hour
Earlier this month the world of the Cougar came to the attention of Woman's Hour, who kicked around the idea that dating a younger man was a bad idea because he would only be interested in playing on his X-Box, rather than enjoying any more sophisticated persuits.
If only I'd been on hand to call into the show and tell them about my 'toy boy's gadget collection.
Since living with Ad Man I have been introduced to a few new bits of technology, I must admit.. but they have all been a far cry from the X Box.
The first to arrive was a tea maker (yes, the proper old fashioned kind, that sits by the bed, gurgling and hissing first thing in the morning). This was then followed by a mini deep fat fryer (for making himself the odd portion of chips) and then to top it all, an electric blanket, so he could snuggle down into a cosy bed at night.
So, let this be my warning to any of you aspirational cougars out there... Don't think having a toyboy is your passport to a life of wild parties, or even all night gaming sessions - you could be signing up for something much more sedate. That said, I am not complaining. Although I'm still drawing the line at a TV-dinner tray...